Jonathan wrote:Maybe a "Flame Room" is required - a place to vent anger or discuss things of a more adult nature BUT NOT to include personal attacks on fellow forum members! An 18+ area where the "Ps" and "Qs" don't have to be watcched!
Works well on other forums.
Jonathan, we made one of those, its called Speakers Corner.

And sometimes a person living and breathing or the most benign remark is perceived by another as a personal attack

I am speaking generally. I like most everyone who posts and don't dislike anyone.. so I hope no one takes offense.. but see? We shouldn't be walking on eggshells here worrying that everything we say might offend someone.
Maybe we should have certain procedures for removing posts:
In general chat, 1 person complaining gets the post removed.
In speakers corner, 5 people agreeing its offensive gets the post removed.
In sports, all out brawl in the stands and by the time its done, they will be saying their side really won anyway, so no posts will have to be removed
This could work
