Dementia....

[Martin]

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[4th gen Suthen']

Your having a hard time Martin, keep strong, bad times always pass and you will emerge stronger from the experience, although I am sure you dont feel like that just now.

Go easy on the Grouse! wont do much good.....hark at me! Mr T Total!! .......aye, one yi go...a right good dram, at the right time, will make it easier.

There must be some organisation that will help you and your Mum properly.....just a case of finding it........

All the very best to you Martin.

[Neil]

Martin my wife spent years doing caring for the elderly/sick as a care in the community nurse,she said you should get in touch with the local age concern or social department to arrange care.

[Sweltered]

When you read your post Martin, it puts a lot of things into perspective. People like you who care for the infirm have my utmost respect. I had a great Aunt that thought it was 1958, and that I was my father. She was in Auchinlee, and I think she was well looked after. The Social Services should be helping you. Go to see your MP, don't just write, take the time to go to a clinic, and keep writing.

I hope it all works out for you and your Mum, as you say, she does not deserve to live like that, and neither do you.

Allan

[Martin]

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[chattichatton]

as a social work student i am discusted by the treatment you and your mother have recieved can i pm you and i will see if i can help you as it does not sound like they are ding anything that they should be and i might have the info that will get them off their backsides to help you I an shocked by your treatment

[Martin]

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[chattichatton]

have pmed you