GarySutherland wrote:Maybe its the incomers curse to be misunderstood?
Gary
Well Gary, I'm not sure that I agree wholeheartedly with you on that one. I think most of the indigenous people fully understand the incomers, but the reverse isn't always true.
The people who are born & bred in Kintyre, or any other rural location in Britain for that matter, and choose to remain there, stay because they are happy with what they have inherited from there forebearers. They may not wish to see change in their lifetime, although change is inevitable. Even us old Bochans have to admit that certain additions to the gene pool are more than welcome and some would say long overdue. Even when you look around the 'indigenous' population of the village, there are very few couples made up of 100% Carradale stock.
A high proportion of couples came together through holiday romances. It used to be that they would be found dancing naked with the covens on the golf course or up the Glen, but with witchcraft ousted from the village in the 1970s, most graduated to downing copious amounts of mind bending firewater & dancing with the devil in the Village Hall instead.
From there, it was usually back to the summer houses, where the young guns would pick from the willing harem. A little known fact is that Speed Dating was actually invented in the village. Up to six couples would share a shebeen, and every hour or so, the females would move one place anti-clockwise around the room. Eventually and one by one, the young crofters would find their soul mates and drop out of the circle. Manys a time, one of the crofters would want the circle to turn clockwise on the realisation that the grass wasn't always greener. This usually ended in fisticuffs and the start of family & neighbourly feuds.
GarySutherland wrote:Do you honestly think that if I didn't like living on Kintyre that I'd stay here? I still own a house down in England that I could easily move back to if I so wanted but I've made a conscious decision to live, work, and raise my family here and I'm enjoying it.
Gary
No Gary, raising a family in the village is to be lauded, as it contributes in many ways to the viability of the local services. However, there is more than an element of truth in what bubbly said about incomers loving a place, but being hellbent on changing it (I'm not even hinting for one minute that this applies to you). Unfortunately for yourself and any other new arrivals in the village, we have been subjected over the years to some fairly unsavoury characters who retired from deep South and tried to force their will on all and sundry, leaving a bitter and unforgetable taste. One couple in particular, who will remain nameless, but resided along the shore road, caused mayhem, attempting to block rights of way, denying access to the foreshore, causing obstructions in the harbour and never even a hint of remorse. They and their vicious dog, seemed to derive great pleasure from confrontation and attempted domination of the locals. However, they learned the hard way that their was a limit to what the locals would find acceptable.
Anyway, I apologise for my digression: if it was that good in Little England, we'd all be away down there ourselves.........mind you, if it was that good here, why have so many fled?