Bobbie En Tejas wrote:Maybe it is the definition of poverty that bothers me. I don't consider people who eat every day and have warmth and a roof over their head to be poverty stricken just because there are other things they want, but can't afford, or, as Sweltered and others in this thread have said, have other priorities instead of taking care of their basic needs. I also dislike it when there is real poverty in the world, and people cry poverty because they don't have everything their neighbors have. Thank god we don't live in Darfur.
Dierdre, you said "poverty is demoralising, destabilising, and destructive." I think that depends on the people involved. There are multitudes of people who were brought up in humble means who are good people, who learned early to roll with the punches, who learned coping skills, who learned that "things" are not what makes life valuable, who weren't destroyed, but made stronger, and have made successful lives for themselves.
Hi Bobbie
I understand your view about different types of poverty. There is a world of difference between the absolute terror and poverty of living in a camp in Darfur in Absolute Poverty and being Relatively Poor in our society. I would not say that any people in the UK live in Absolute Poverty. It is important to recognise that difference.
I think the difficulty of comparing the Relative Poverty of, say, 50 years ago to today is that the culture and expectation of our society has changed enormously. My 10 year old daughter cannot image a world without the PS2, Internet or 24 hour tv. None of these existed when I was wee in the 1970s. Nowadays young people live in a world with more choices but with also more uncertainty and expectations. After WWII I think people thought about new opportunities opening up for them and possibilities: a job for life, free education, free health, state owned affordable power and transport.
Nowadays young people who achieve at school will end up paying for their education and be burdened with debt. They are then expected to get married, have lots of kids, earn lots of money, and get lots more credit to live throwaway, aspirational lifestyles. On top of this they are expected to pay for the older generation's pensions and for their own, not to mention buying in to the housing market at mortgages four or five times their salary. Even people who rent are affected by higher rents for higher costing properties.
For those who are not academic, have literacy difficulties, or don't have friends and family at higher education the situation may be worse as they still want to live the same aspirational lifestyle but have limited access to any apprenticeship system to give them a chance to contribute to society and gain their self esteem. I think in days gone by some people would have been given an opportunity by a relative or friend of the family who lived nearby but that works less so in housing estates where those under the most life pressures are put together, and are often less likely to be working. Statistically the biggest reason for family break ups is money worries.
It is not surprising that so many want to be celebrities and get their aspirations without earning it. People are growing up on large scale, poorly built and designed housing environments, unlike previous developments that were well made, grew organically, and designed and focussed on people working and living in extended family groups. They are going to school with people often of a similar situation, who may also not have much expectation of progressing out of their situation.
Relative Poverty, in my opinion, used to be to people in your community, but now it is the global community as the media is global and ever present. It is a huge pressure for young people who grow up to be the future adults of our society. How likely is it that for a child growing up in a drugs saturated, poorly designed housing estate, sometimes attending a local 'sink' school that they are going to live the Paris Hilton lifestyle? Not likely I think. But that is very often the apiration.
It would seem to me that the current consumer culture is fuelled by the child targeted advertisements on tv, in schools, in cinemas, on the Internet and on clothes labelled. This happens from the moment a child is born.
As you said some people manage to roll with the punches and do very well, but I think that nowadays the rules are ever changing, and more people are finding it harder to cope, hence the rise in drug and alcohol abuse. There are a lot of really nice and intelligent people whose lives are being wasted as they cannot cope in our current consumer culture.